Basic Blonde Beliefs
A quirky, witty, funny (sometimes not so funny) take on life as I see it! From raising children, relationships in general, and the latest trends in Interior Design and Fashion. Oh, and ALWAYS the 411 on the latest Hollywood Happenings from my POV. So come along for the ride, and always remember that no matter where life takes you, you just gotta BELIEVE!!!!!
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Tackling Tuesday Conan Style
I ran across this excerpt from Conan O'Brien's commencement address when he returned to address the graduating class of 2000 at Harvard University. He is brilliant, and funny and spot on. Carpe the damn diem my friends!
"Needless to say, I took a lot of criticism, some of it deserved, some of it excessive, and, to be honest with you, it hurt like you would not believe. But I’m telling you all this for a reason. I’ve had a lot of success. I’ve had a lot of failure. I’ve looked good. I’ve looked bad. I’ve been praised. And I’ve been criticized. But my mistakes have been necessary. I’ve dwelled on my failures today because, as graduates of Harvard, your biggest liability is your need to succeed, your need to always find yourself on the sweet side of the bell curve. Success is a lot like a bright white tuxedo. You feel terrific when you get it, but then you’re desperately afraid of getting it dirty, of spoiling it.
I left the cocoon of Harvard, I left the cocoon of Saturday Night Live, I left the cocoon of the Simpsons. And each time it was bruising and tumultuous. And yet every failure was freeing, and today I’m as nostalgic for the bad as I am for the good. So that’s what I wish for all of you—the bad as well as the good. Fall down. Make a mess. Break something occasionally. Know that your mistakes are your own unique way of getting to where you need to be. And remember that the story is never over."
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Monday, September 17, 2012
To Thine Own Self Be True
So okay....
I've been having a serious debate with myself over the past couple of weeks regarding whether or not I should delete my Facebook account. It seems to have become a vehicle for people to market their goods and to impress on others how frickin', utterly fabulous they are. I'll be the first to admit, in the past, I've been guilty of using it to market my business. In retrospect, while it garnered me lots of business it also probably annoyed the shit out many of my friends. My bad. Unfortunately, it has become so inundated with self-indulgent crap that it is barely recognizable as the site it used to be. A site for people to connect & reconnect.
For instance, take my "friend" (& I use the term loosely) we'll call her Janine. Janine is a nice enough, albeit very shallow and dare I say uneducated woman. Not the smartest cookie in the jar and as fake as a set of solar nails. She inevitably mispells at least one word in every post and she constantly extolls what a fantastic, benevolent "leader" she is. Problem is Janine has a tendency to not show up when she's supposed to,take all the credit even when she doesn't deserve it, and wouldn't know how to lead if her life depended on it.
I dare say, I know a ton of people who would love to "lead" Janine to the edge of a cliff and watch her fly....because she's special...and she knows much more about life and every situation than we do...and she cares...Urghhh!!! and she's a phony.
So... to Facebook or not to Facebook that is the question. I'm sure I'll keep my account, mainly in order to keep up with the people I'm genuinely interested in. Someone said to just "unfriend" the people I don't like. Hmmm.....tempting, until I realize that I've somehow accumulated over 1200 "friends", many of them just like Janine. The thought of going through and deleting them one by one is daunting but somehow profoundly cathartic.
So here's to the future. A future with a lot less "friends". Shakespeare said "to thine own self be true". Here's to you and all my other fake friends Janine! One, two, three fly!
Now I feel better.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
A MUST READ for Women-Through a Rapist's Eyes
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Friday, November 4, 2011
Rich O'Toole & Jake the Merch Guy Ride into Dodge City
Be on the lookout for Jake the Merch Guy slangin' merch and payin' tribute to Wyatt Earp.
And don't forget to tell him that his mama back in Texas sends her love.
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Thursday, November 3, 2011
Rich O'Toole, Josh Abbott Band & Jake the Merch Guy @ The Grenada
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Monday, September 26, 2011
Rich O'Toole & Jake the Merch Guy on Tour
Hey guys!
Jake the Merch Guy & Rich O'Toole are coming to a venue near you!
Get ready for a rowdy, rockin', good time!
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
8.0's (95.9 The Ranch Free Music Series)
111 East 3rd, Fort Worth, TX 76102
Set: 7:30 PM
All Ages
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Ft. Bend County Fair (ACOUSTIC) w/ Brandon Rhyder
4310 Highway 36 South, Rosenberg, TX 77471
281-342-6171 Set: 8:00 PM
All Ages
One reviewer of Rich's new album "Kiss of a Liar" writes~ "I am so excited about what this album could do for Rich’s career. It has a lot of songs that could be singles and it's great from start to finish! I look forward to watching what this album does for him and I also look forward to hearing more out of him in the future. Whether you were a fan of his before or not you should definitely pick up this album!"
For more information about Rich's new album or tour schedule visit http://richotoole.com
And don't forget to tell Jake the Merch Guy that his mama sends her love.
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Friday, September 16, 2011
Jake the Merch Guy Joins Rich O'Toole
This just in! Jake the Merch Guy is all healed and ready to hit the road again. Jake has landed with Texas' own Rich O'Toole & he's anxious to connect with all Rich's fans.
Rich O’Toole is honest to goodness Texas talent with a spicy presence in his music that can only be found hailing from a state that has a reputation for everything being bigger – and Rich proves this rumor true with huge lyrical passion, a gigantic portion of daring subject matter that’ll leave any listener wide-eyed, and massive on-stage energy. This energy hasn’t fallen one bit even after four ...years of touring nationally. It’s only increased, and for Rich, that’s the plan for the rest of his career. Rich’s new record showcases passion, mixed with honest songwriting, and spun into guitar driven country/rock melodies that are noticeably present in his latest single “The Cricket Song”, released in February. This single is only one of many on the record that beg each listener to be a part of Rich’s story and sometimes, the story pushes the envelope without tipping it over. Crowd-favorite “Marijuana & Jalapenos” is a Texas anthem that’ll have you trying to grin around the tongue in your cheek.
This never-give-up mantra has led Rich to accumulate a die-hard and dedicated fan base over his years of touring who could sing every word to each song on the night’s set list. Night after night, he offers audiences an energetic and intimate performance that could only be described as “Bruce Springsteen meets Country Music” and if you ask him what it is that fuels these performances and his recent success, he’ll reply with one word: passion. “If I didn’t love playing city after city so much, I wouldn’t do it. There’ll be times when I leave the stage soakin’ wet because of how much energy the crowd and I shared.” Intriguing song content, melodies that will have you riding on verve, and the determination to present an ever-increasing on-stage dynamism to audiences across the U.S. make Rich O’Toole a Country Rock force to watch out for.
Rich will be at the Catfish & Country Concert w/ Brandon Rhyder in Sulphur Springs TX Saturday Night. Are you ready??
And oh yeah, tell Jake the Merch Guy his mama sends her love.
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